Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Miracle on the Hudson


Two months ago my cousin passed on to me a Power Point presentation that details the journey of the "Miracle on the Hudson."

I have been meaning to put it on my website so everyone can check it out - and I finally did that this morning. The photos are powerful and the story is filled with life, hope and inspiration.

If you need a little 'pick me up' today take a look.

Click Here to get to the ShopLaMuse.net 'links' page - scroll to the bottom and you will see the link.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

People are made to be Loved and Things are made to be Used

A forwarded email worth sharing; received from my friend and La Muse fan - Christienne Ruth:

Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them now, Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a housedress, lawn mower in one hand, and dish-towel in the other. It was the time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress. Things we keep.


It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy.. All that re-fixing, eating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.


But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.

Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So... While we have it... its best we love it... And care for it.... And fix it when it's broken..... And heal it when it's sick.

This is true... For marriage.... And old cars.... And children with bad report cards..... Dogs and cats with bad hips.... And aging parents.... And grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it. Some things we keep. Like a best friend that moved away or a classmate we grew up with.

There are just some things that make life important, like people we know who are special.... And so, we keep them close!



Good friends are like stars.... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.

People are made to be Loved and Things are made to be Used
There is so much confusion in this World because People are being Used and Things are being Loved.

Monday, March 2, 2009

What quote speaks to you?

Yesterday afternoon as I was sitting down to write the La Muse newsletter I was looking for inspiration. I started sifting through books looking for a story or quote that spoke to me. I was in the back of the store reading "Live Boldly" by Mary Anne Radmacher when the phone rang - it was BB Becker.

BB is a jewelry artist living in Colorado (we found that we have similar NY roots as he's originally from Coney Island). I first saw BB's jewelry over a year ago in the Mountain Laurel gallery in Berkeley Springs, WV. The gallery manager was kind enough to give me his contact information so that I would be able to inquire about bringing him into La Muse. As soon as I returned from the trip I called BB's office and found out that his line was already being carried in a gallery here in Old Town. As with all artists I represent BB sells to only one retail store per zip code - a policy that ensures unique products among retailers in each area. I asked his office manager to keep me in mind should circumstances change.

About a month ago I passed by the gallery here in town that carried BB's work and noticed that they had closed. I spoke with his office manager early last week and got everything I needed to place my first order. When BB called yesterday it was unexpected - he called to say hello, introduce himself and tell me a little about him, his life, his business, his family and his inspiration. BB's entire jewelry line is based in quotes and affirmations. He told me that he literally goes through thousands and thousands of quotes with his wife to decide which ones to give life to.

As we shared stories about our customers and how different quotes resonated with them, and with us, he shared a very poignant story about two sisters in Sarasota. It was shortly after their mother's death and they were both cleaning out her house when they came across a wooden box. They opened the box to find an envelope and two gift wrapped boxes, one with each of their names on it. Inside the envelope was a beautiful love letter written by a mother to her daughters - it told them how much she adored them and how very proud she was of both of them. Inside each gift wrapped box was an identical BB Becker bracelet that read "At one glance I loved you with a thousand hearts." -Mihri Hatun. Needless to say the ladies were extremely touched and called BB to let him know about their mom and the gifts. They also wanted to find out what store their mom may have purchased the bracelets at so they could go by and talk to the store owner and see if perhaps she might remember their mom. BB told me he was so happy to have been the conduit through which this mother left a final message to her daughters.

It's no coincidence that messages of hope, love, intrigue, humor and inspiration adorn almost every inch of space here at La Muse. It is because, at a very early age, I have looked to various quotes to help me stay focused in life. I remember being in high school and writing "Reach for the Stars" over and over again on everything I possibly could...and since about the age of 23 "Live with Gratitude" has been my daily mantra and remains at the forefront of my brain and heart. Each day I am at the store I look around and a particular quote will catch my eye to influence the day's activities.

I am grateful to be able to offer hundreds of different quotes in so many forms here at La Muse. My wish is that they help to inspire you in some way and bring a smile to your face. So, what quote speaks to you today? Perhaps we can help you find it at www.ShopLaMuse.com!

For an index of thousands of quotes Quotegarden.com is a wonderful resource.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Journey through the nomination & inauguration of Barack Obama

In the spring of 2007 my husband, Darryel, brought Barack Obama to my attention. He was interested in his ideals and refreshed by his ideas. He purchased the book “The Audacity of Hope,” read it and encouraged me to read it. I started to read it, but, in all honesty, once I got to page three and read about the media consultant dismissing him because of his name I thought “yeah, I understand that … too bad buddy” and I didn’t read too much further.

I mean really, here’s a country affixed on killing a person named Osama bin Laden, … there’s no way this Country is going to embrace someone named Barack Hussein Obama as President of the United States. C’mon are you kidding?

Summer of 2007 turned into Fall … and still Darryel was fixed on Barack Obama … and he got me to listen. Against all odds Mr. Obama continued to make headway. His drive and ideas began to excite me … his burning passion to give the United States of America back to the people … now that was an idea! I often wondered, “Is this guy for real?” But the more he stayed ‘on message,’ the more he stayed true to the course and didn’t change his mission statement at the slightest change of the tide … the more hopeful and excited I became.

But seriously, is there any way that a man with such lofty ideas, a less than desirable name and less than 3 years experience as a senator, can beat a Clinton?

Fast forward to January 3, 2008 … OMG, OMG, OMG … how did that happen?? The Iowa caucuses – did Barack Obama really win?

I don’t know about you – but for me, the men and women responsible for beating the pavement in Iowa deserve a lions share of the credit for ‘President’ Obama. Hands down!! It was the shock, the jolt that America needed to really open its eyes to the possibilities. It was the action that had us all believing ‘Yes, we can!’

By the time February 12, 2008 rolled around, the time for the Virginia primaries – I swaggered into the voting both with such an heir of confidence about me … it was almost comical. The long battle was over when Obama became the presumptive nominee for the Democratic presidential nomination on June 3, 2008
On the evening of November 4, 2008 Darryel and I stayed at home and tuned to CNN … until I just couldn’t take it anymore. I needed to be with people… I could be watching a significant day in our Nation’s history and I wanted to soak up the energy. We went to Crystal City Sports Pub where there were lots of TV’s and a good amount of Obama fans. As I watched Barack Obama win Pennsylvania, Ohio, Virginia and Florida (Tim Russert’s ‘Florida, Florida, Florida’ will forever ring in my head) … and then win the election. … I shouted, I smiled and I cried. I said to Darryel that night that I was in such awe … of us, of our Country, of what we had accomplished. …and I said “Baby, you’re taking 1-20-09 off and we’re going to this inauguration!” Wow, I didn’t know at the time how many other people had the same idea.

I live less than 6 miles from Washington DC but sometime around January 1 I got scared off from going to the inauguration of our 44th president. Every radio station, TV station and website was my ‘Inauguration Station.’ Crowds were forecasted from 1 million to 4 million people. I started to wonder if we’d be able to walk to DC, bike ride in, Metro in … would we even be able to get into DC? Maybe we should just relax and sit on the sidelines and watch the day’s events at home.

On Friday, January 16 I was still indecisive about going into DC to watch the inauguration. At some point in the morning a thought hit me that made the decision an easy one.

On 9/11 I lived in NY on Long Island. The day was a roller coaster ride to say the least … the most emotional day I have lived. Many of my friends worked in NYC, one of them died and all of them have a significant story to tell. Yet, despite all the craziness, the fear, the 10 hours waiting for her husband to come home from NYC and the emotional homecoming when he finally did … I remember my friend Stacey telling me that she would make sure to get the newspaper in the morning because this is history. Stacey has two young children and wanted to make sure she preserved this bit of history so that, when they got older, they could read about 9/11 from the same newspapers as she had.

On Friday January 16th I thought about Stacey … and about how she would probably pick up the newspaper on January 20th … and save yet another piece of history for her children. And then I thought about how incredibly ridiculous it would be for me to stay home because the crowds might be ‘too much.’ How silly am I to sit on the sidelines of history when I could be living it?

On Sunday January 18th I worked at my store and watched the concert from the Lincoln Memorial streaming live on my computer … and I scolded myself for not taking the day off to go and watch it. The excitement in DC was mounting and I wanted to be a part of it! On Sunday night I asked Darryel if we could get up bright and early to head into DC and be a part of MLK’s Day of Service. Other than wishing I’d given him a little more notice he was a great sport about it …and off we went! We spent the morning at RFK stadium assembling packages for our soldiers serving overseas. There were thousands of volunteers and every single one of them was smiling! We met people from all over the country who had come to witness the inauguration. The energy was amazing, it crackled in the air …it was a wonderful mixture of excitement and pure joy. There were some celebrity sightings and Michelle Obama even made an appearance – too bad it was about a half hour after our shift had finished! Later that evening I heard from someone that wouldn’t be able to attend the inauguration and had two tickets that were ‘way in the back’ but did I want them? Sure … I knew I was going to be watching far from the Capitol but at least this way I wasn’t two miles away.

On Inauguration Day Darryel and I got to the Metro platform somewhere around 8am (I thought the people that got there at 4am were nuts … but in hindsight they were the smart ones). The trains were PACKED. I have never seen so many people crammed into a train car like that. It quickly became apparent that if we were going to be able to get on a train we’d have to ride away from DC and get on at a station where the trains were less crowded. When all was said and done it didn’t take us too long to get into DC but they had closed the train station where we were supposed to get off at due to overcrowding so we exited on the opposite side of the Mall. Darryel and I surfaced at China Town (or as I fondly refer to it, China Block) and began the journey of getting ourselves back to the south side of the Mall where our ‘Silver Gate’ entry point was. Surprisingly the police officers were fairly well informed. Although they said the game plan was changing by the minute they managed to point us in the right direction. Along the way people were singing, cheering, smiling, laughing and just generally happy. Everyone was fairly polite; everyone was on their private mission and trying to find their own little slice of history on the Mall. Entrances were blocked, people weren’t sure where to go – yet despite the disorganization most people took it all in stride. We were all there for a common purpose and, in the spirit of Obama, I didn’t hear anyone shouting or being angry or disrespectful. This was the journey! This is why I was there! And I soaked up every single bit of it!

It took us about 30 minutes or so to get to the ‘Silver Gate.’ I could see the gate right in front of me, it was only about 50 feet away … and there were 5000 other people next to me looking at it too! As we waited patiently for our turn to go through security we had fun hanging out in the crowd. Everyone chatted and joked, we were all in a common dilemma of ‘what is going on, why isn’t the line moving?’ We had ‘sign boy’ and ‘rescue man’ to keep us busy and informed. For almost two hours we stood there, pretty much in the same place… oh so close, and yet so far!!
At about 11:15 I looked at Darryel and said “We’re getting to the point of no return.” We hadn’t moved and if we didn’t bail out soon and either go further back on the Mall to a Jumbotron or hit a TV somewhere we were going to miss the historic moment all together. No one was giving us any information … finally someone climbed a tree and said it didn’t look like they were letting anyone through security. We decided to bail! We were standing 2 blocks from L’Enfant Metro station…and about 10 blocks from where we’d be able to see a Jumbotron. We jumped on the Metro, crossed over back into Virginia and watch the swearing in with about 100 people at Joe Theisman’s restaurant while having a superb lunch!

As Obama was being sworn in I looked over at my husband and he had tears in his eyes. After lunch we strolled around town and enjoyed the cold winter air. When we got home we ordered in Chinese food and got toasty under the covers to watch the parade and coverage of the balls.

It was a spectacular day, a spectacular few days, to be a part of. I have to admit that I was a little melancholy on January 21st and wished I could to it all over again! (only this time I’d go to the concert at the Lincoln Memorial and get into DC on inauguration day a wee bit earlier)

And now the work begins! In the face of adversity America has always been able to emerge victorious. Our challenges today are big ones, but I have no doubt that my fellow Americans are up to the task and what a terrific President we have to lead the way!

Monday, January 26, 2009

12-15-08 ... to today :)

Have you seen the recent Verizon Fios commercial? It goes like this:
Verizon Fios Guy - "For $99 a month we give you one million different services, we are the bomb, we are the best, we rock, you won't find a better service out there - free dvr player, 5000 free channels, free hd ..." you get the idea

Moderator - "...and you Mr. Cable guy, what have you got?"

Cable Guy - "...ummm, the best of intentions?"

And so goes the way of this blog recently ... I have the best of intentions to write in it every day ... does that count?

Anyway - I do have some 'good karma' entries to add:

GKE#1 - Sending 'just because' greeting cards - over the weekend I decided to send two greeting cards to my girlfriends 'just because.' I told them I love them and wrote all sorts of fun quotes and affirmations all over the cards ... things like "Be the change you wish to see in the world," "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams, live the life you've imagined," "Peace begins with a smile" -Mother Teresa, and "I still believe that people are really good at heart" -Anne Frank Anyway ... in a time where we usually only receive bills in the mail, what a pleasant surprise to receive a greeting card 'just because!'

GKE#2 - Participating President Elect Obama's 'Day of Service' to honor Dr. Martin Luther King - Last Monday was MLK Day and my husband, Darryel, and I spent the morning at RFK stadium in DC helping to assemble packages for our troops. It was a morning filled with amazing energy as the city was filled to capacity with visitors for the inauguration. They had set up big heated tents for us to assemble the packages and I saw at least one TV personality ... I imagine there were more ... everyone was getting into the spirit. Michelle Obama even showed up - too bad it was about 30 minutes after we left!!

GKE#3 - Posting on www.USAService.org - Have you seen the commercials with President Obama touting the website? Well, I posted to it trying to promote the fact that I will send packages for the troops and to drop things off at my store. In the 6 days since I posted I have had 10 responses from people saying they'd drop things off ... and I had someone drop off about 30 pounds worth of goodies over the weekend! In addition, last week I boxed up 105 pounds worth of goodies and am dropping them off at the post office today.

For anyone looking for an economical way to participate in the www.AnySoldier.com program. The US Postal Service offers a flat rate box that can be sent to any APO for only $11.50 - how awesome is that? Fill the box with a bunch of used dvd's, books, cd's & magazines ... maybe toss in a few candy bars and, for under $20 you are going to make some soldiers VERY HAPPY!!!

If you have any comments or ideas on ways to Create Good Karma please feel free to comment on this blog!!

Hugs -debra